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Is "Time Out" the Only Skill in Your Discipline Toolbox? Wish You Had Meaningful Activities to Offer Your Toddler or Preschooler—Instead of TV?Dear Parents of Toddlers and Preschoolers, My name is Cornelia Lockitch, and I work with parents of toddlers and preschoolers who are frustrated by not getting through to their young children because they don't understand them, don't know how to talk to them effectively, and don't know what's realistic to expect of them. Drawing on 10 years of teaching in Montessori and private school education as well as my own experiences as a mother, I have created the FREE biweekly Guide Your Child parenting e-newsletter.
Even more, when you sign up for the Guide Your Child parenting e-newsletter you can download right away my FREE 20+ page report: "The 3 Simple Child-Management Secrets Montessori Teachers Know…and No Parent Should Be Without" This special report contains 3 time-tested child-management techniques that every good Montessori teacher knows and uses—and every parent needs to know. Many moms observe their child at school—cleaning up, sitting still, not interrupting—and wonder: How do they get those kids to do that? Here is your chance to find out three “tricks” of the Montessori trade as they apply to a parent-child, family home setting. All you have to do is type in your first name and primary email address in the box and click SUBMIT...and my FREE report will be yours within minutes!
Here’s what some real moms are saying about Guide Your Child… Thanks to Cornelia, I am a much more confident parent. Before I took her parenting coaching program, I was trying to follow some of the Montessori principles, but I was not always sure how to put them into practice—especially when my daughter was only sixteen months old and not walking yet! Cornelia gave me so many practical ways to put my ideas into action. She showed me that it wasn't too early to show my daughter how to put away her own shoes, help with diaper changes, and clean up after a meal. Now I know how to challenge my daughter with interesting activities without overwhelming her, and she loves it! We communicate better, and best of all, my confidence allows me to enjoy my time with my daughter without self-doubt and confusion. Thank you, Cornelia! -- Amy Mossoff, mother of one, northern Virginia When my son was about 18 months old, I felt overwhelmed and stressed. I was trying to cope with his increasing demands on my time while completing chores and errands. With Cornelia's advice I realized I had to change my expectations, and that I didn't have to get everything done while my son napped. She gave me suggestions for involving him in chores by giving him simple tasks to do. She also referred me to a resource where I could purchase child-size utensils/tools. Household duties that used to be boring were now opportunities to spend meaningful time with my son. With Cornelia's practical suggestions, my days became easier and more relaxed. I was grateful I didn't have to buy expensive or gimmicky toys. A sink full of water, some soap, and a few dishes and my son was happily occupied! -- Sandra Hale, mother of one, Melbourne, Australia Before beginning the Guide Your Child parenting coaching program, I had little understanding of how a child's environment can be structured to promote independence and how important this independence is to his development and self-esteem. I now have very specific recommendations for how to set up different rooms around the house and organize age-appropriate activities to facilitate my child's learning and sense of satisfaction with himself. In addition, I have learned more about the different developmentally sensitive periods children pass through and how to take advantage of these. For example, rather than struggling to stop my child from climbing all over the house, I now appreciate that this is an important stage in his motor development and seek out safe opportunities for him to further develop these skills. I also obtained very useful guidance on the distinction between 'if-then' statements and bribes, and between consequences and punishment. The application of this new knowledge will help me carry out my role as guide in my child's development, rather than as punitive disciplinarian. -- Alexandra Fischer, mother of a four-year old boy, Canada Our son’s transition from a stay-at-home toddler to Montessori pre-schooler was not as smooth as we had envisioned. Cornelia’s insight into what our son was going through and her helpful advice on what changes were needed to optimize his experiences in school enabled us to get on a successful track. Our son is now more productive in school and definitely happier. Cornelia continues to be a great resource in helping us better understand our son’s educational needs and we highly recommend her to others with young children in school. -- Sylvia H., mother of two, San Diego, CA Cornelia, when you were my son's teacher you consistently handled the kids with respect and effective discipline in a very benevolent way. More recently I heard you speak on parent-child communication skills, and I was impressed with how much practical information I came away with. You have a knack for describing parenting techniques so simply and clearly that I could actually make use of them when I'm 'in the moment' with my kids, changing the dynamic of my relationship with them. These techniques have improved the atmosphere and openness to work through issues in our home. -- R. Brook, mother of two, Orange County, CA I look forward to sharing valuable information with you that can change the way you parent!
P.S. Are you interested in a systematic program to develop skills that increase your confidence as a parent and bring positive changes to the way you approach your toddler or preschooler? Contact me at (949) 212-9646 or Info@GuideYourChild.com to share your parenting struggles, find out about my coaching services, and see if I may be of help to you. Parenting coach Cornelia Lockitch, M.Ed., helps parents to delight in their child’s early years by giving them a practical framework for understanding, talking to, and guiding their young child. She holds diplomas in Montessori education for the primary and elementary age groups from the Association Montessori Internationale (AMI), as well as a Master’s degree in Education. Cornelia has ten years of teaching experience in Montessori and private education, and has taught children from preschool to junior high. A mother herself, she has both a professional and personal appreciation for the challenges and the joys of interacting with children on a daily basis. She lives in Orange County, California, with her family and a pair of very affectionate mackerel tabby cats. Cornelia is available for private parenting coaching and engaging lectures to your child’s school, local moms’ group, or community event. Email her at Info@GuideYourChild.com.
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